How others treat you depends on how you allow them to treat you. Imagine you're a gatekeeper, and you control who enters your life. If you don't set boundaries, people may walk all over you. It's like having a sign that says "welcome" to mistreatment. But when you stand up for yourself, it's like having a sign that says "respect only."
Think of it like a mirror: how you see yourself reflects how others see you. If you value yourself, others are more likely to value you too. Like a book with clear rules, your behavior teaches others how to treat you. When you let people know your worth, they'll treat you with the respect you deserve.
In life, you're the author of your story, and you get to write the script. Don't let others dictate how your story unfolds. Instead, be the director of your own life, and choose how people treat you. Remember, you have the power to influence the way others behave towards you, so use it wisely.